Sunday, September 27, 2009

You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation

Location: Barnes and Noble98 Middlesex ParkwayBurlington, MA 01803 US
When: Thursday, October 29, 7:30PM


Have you ever had a conversation with someone of the opposite sex that seemed like you were operating on different wavelengths, or that the conversation you thought you were having was interpreted completely differently by the other party? Dr. Tannen argues that it's not in your head: women and men in conversation is much closer to cross-cultural communication than we might imagine. She then goes on to enumerate the many ways that miscommunication arises based on the different ways we tend to speak and interpret conversations: through the lens of status (men) or connection (women).Dr. Tannen's research, including transcripts of conversations from studies of boys, girls, men, and women of various ages and anecdotal evidence from real conversations persuasively makes the case for the status and connection at work in every conversation. I appreciated that the author never makes a moral judgment about the way one or the other interprets the conversation. She merely explains what's going on from each point of view, giving each party the language to express what they're trying to do or say. I recognized many conversations as ones I have had with my brother, my father, and male friends. Some of the topics she touches on, such as high-involvement/high-considerate and direct/indirect ways of speaking are beneficial even in conversations with people of the same sex (for example, as a "high-involvement speaker" I can now explain to my family that I really do end a sentence with "and" waiting for someone to overlap my speech). Because she ties everything back to the original ideas of status and connection, her comments on conversations do become a bit repetitive after awhile. But her conversational style and clear presentation of a persuasive argument make this book worth reading.
(http://www.librarything.com/work/1345249)

Istanbullular by Buket Uzuner

Location: Serpil'in evi

When: 09/22/09 , 7:30PM


Yaz 2005. Yalnızlıklar ve imkânsız aşklar şehri İstanbul. Atatürk Havalimanı. Belgin, Ayhan ve diğerleri. Sonunda artık hiçbirinin eskisi gibi olmayacağı 4 saatlik serüven.İstanbullular romanı, Atatürk Havalimanı dış hatlar terminalinde, sevse de sevmese de hepsinin İstanbul' la gönül, iş, ekmek, yurt ve/veya kimlik bağları olan, 15 kişinin hayatla, kendileriyle, hiç beklenmedik büyük bir tehditle ve İstanbul' un kendisiyle yüzleşmelerinin hikâyesini anlatıyor.İstanbul'un kendisinin de bir anlatıcı- karakter olduğu roman, modernitenin ve şehrin sınırında; genetik bilimciden-gurbetçi işçiye, taksi şoförunden-ünlü bir heykeltıraşa, tuvalet temizlikçisinden-mimarlar odası eski başkanına kadar İstanbullu 15 kişinin yollarının kesiştiği bir ortamda, yüzyılımızın göçlerle genişlemiş İstanbul' undan, dolayısıyla Türkiye' sinden bir kesit sunuyor. Bir İstanbul romanının en olmazsa olmazı aşksa elbette baş köşede yer alıyor!13 yıl önce hayatını değiştiren trajik bir olayı İstanbul'la özdeşleştirerek şehri terk edip New York'a yerleşen Bebekli bilim kadını-akademisyen Belgin Gümüş'ün (41), orada bir sergi açılışında tanıştığı ünlü Türk heykeltıraş Ayhan Pozaner'e (38) aşık olur. Birlikte yeni bir hayat kurmak üzere İstanbul'a dönmekte olan Belgin hamiledir ve bebeği doğurma konusunda kararsızdır. İstanbul'a ve Ayhan'a olan aşkı, her türlü ihanetten çok çekmiş biri olarak onu ürkütmektedir.Aslen Adanalı pamuk işçisi bir çiftin yedinci çocuğu olarak doğan, müstehcen bulunduğu için sürekli parçalanan Maçka Parkı'ndaki heykellerini tekrar tekrar onarmasıyla tanınan heykeltıraş Ayhan Pozaner, kendi 'İstanbul Rüyası' nı gerçekleştirebilmiş ender bir 'İstanbullu'dur. Darüşafaka Lisesi ve Mimar Sinan Güzel Sanatlar mezunu, 'kendi kendini yetiştirmiş' bir insan olan Ayhan, kendisinden yaşça büyük, kültürel/sınıfsal olarak farklı bir burjuva kızı olan Belgin'e sırılsıklam aşıktır ama tıpkı İstanbul'a duyduğu ürpertili hayranlık gibi bu aşktan da ürkmektedir.Aynı havalimanı çatısı altında pasaport kontrol çizgisinin iki yanında bekleyen Ayhan ve Belgin, aşktan ve İstanbul'dan korkarak, kararsız, tedirgin; özlemle ve suçlulukla yanarak, her an birbirlerinden, İstanbul' dan kaçmayı düşünmektedirler.Bu sırada dış hatlar terminalinde bir dijital arıza nedeniyle bütün uçuşların iptal edildiği ANONS edilir. Herkes bu ANONS'un bir bomba ihbarıyla ilgili olduğundan kuşkulanır ve ölüm endişesiyle iç hesaplaşmaya girer. Tuvalet temizlik işçisi varoşlu Hasret Sefertaş, pasaport polisi şoven Üzeyir Seferihisar, taksi şoförü İstanbullu Kürt Hamo Türk, Duty Free müdürü İstanbullu laik Yahudi Jak Sarfati, Moskova'dan dönen liberal işadamı Mehmet Emin Entek, onun genç sevgilisi ve asistanı Tijen Derya, türban yasağı nedeniyle Amerika'da üniversite eğitimi almaya giden türbanlı Aleynâ Gülsefer, Cannes'da bir festivale giden ünlü sinema yazarı İstanbullu Levanten Anna Maria Vernier, Fransa'da okuyan kızını
ziyaretten dönen Fransızca öğretmeni İstanbullu Ermeni Ayda Seferyan, yurtdışında yaşayan kızı ve torununu ziyaretten yaşadığı Büyükada'ya dönen emekli tarih öğretmeni Kemalist Ulviye Yeniçağ, Barcelona'daki bir mimarlık konferansında Türkiye'yi temsil eden İstanbullu aktivist, ünlü mimar Erol Argunsoy, onun genç sevgilisi havalimanı barmeni İ. Baturcan Uzunçay, Atina'ya göçmüş akrabalarını ziyarete giden Boğaziçi Üniversitesi çevre bilimci İstanbullu Rum Prof. Yannis Seferis, San Francisco'daki ailesini ziyarete giden İstanbullu turizmci Susan Constance Berlin'den tatile gelen Alevî işçi Sabriye Bektaş ve Belgin'i karşılamaya gelen dadısı, dert ortağı, eski besleme İstanbullu Kete...

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http://www.buketuzuner.com/TR/kitaplar_romanlar_istanbullular.asp

Always Looking Up: The Adventures of an Incurable Optimist by Michael J. Fox

Location: Ruhan'in Evi
When: 6/26/09, 7:30PM

Always Looking Up: The Adventures of an Incurable Optimist by Michael J. Fox


Long before I discovered that Michael J. Fox had Parkinson's disease, I had already been an ardent fan and admirer. Growing up watching Family Ties and his movies, I was heavily influenced by his own distinct brand of dry wit and comedy. So when I found his first memoir, the number one bestseller Lucky Man (2003), I devoured the book in one sitting. It was a funny, witty and truly moving book.
His second book, Always Looking Up: The Adventures of an Incurable Optimist isn't really a memoir. Although Mr. Fox peppers this book with some very funny anecdotes about his life experiences, it's really more of a collection of personal essays dealing with his views on four themes: work, faith, family and politics. These themes are spread out into four chapters.
Always Looking Up deals more with his battle with Parkinson's, picking up where Lucky Man left behind, but delves into more serious tones as he chronicles his battles with the disease. Luckily, the reader is spared from depressing narratives, and rightfully so, because the title does suggest optimism.
Michael J. Fox is a particularly gifted writer, though, as he states in the book, he has never finished high school or college, and one has to marvel at how articulate he can be.This in itself is testament to the man's unrelenting passion for continuous improvement, particularly so, given the crippling nature of Parkinson's.

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http://blogcritics.org/books/article/book-review-always-looking-up-the/

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Heart and Soul by Maeve Binchy

Location: Serra'nin Evi
When: Wednesday, April 29, 7:30PM

Heart and Soul by Maeve Binchy

Another delightful Binchyesque amalgamation of intersecting lives...The collective, charming effect of these story lines suggests that individuals are more connected than they might think." –Publishers Weekly"Only a curmudgeon could resist this master of cheerful, read-by-the-fire comfort." –Kirkus Reviews"Interweaving the domestic narratives of a dissimilar collection of individuals is beloved Binchy's stock-in-trade, and once again, she does so with sublime ease, inventively engaging readers through a reassuring and persuasive combination of gracious warmth, gentle humor, and genuine affection." –Carol Haggas, Booklist“Ambitious and intelligently conceived...A heart clinic is really the perfect metaphor for how this book feels. It's a warm and comfy world [and reading Heart and Soul is] not unlike getting a hug from your mother...Binchy's millions-strong readership...will not be disappointed.” –William Kowalski, The Globe and Mail (Toronto)"Oh, the bliss...Maeve's back, on top form...The heart is the theme, literally and metaphorically, and this is heartwarming stuff–sweet but never cloying." –The Times"[Maeve Binchy] knows how to fashion a minor drama into a crisis, and the book rattles along from one gripping story to another, leaving the reader with a satisfying glow...It does exactly what it says on the tin: gives heart and soul." –Daily Mail"[Heart and Soul] brings together the secret hopes and dreams of a disparate group of characters...with [Binchy's] trademark warmth and empathy." –Irish Sunday Independent"Maeve Binchy's latest novel is packed as usual with wonderful characters...Full of warmth, caring and commonsense." –CHOICE
http://www.diesel-ebooks.com/cgi-bin/item/parent-9780307265791/Heart-and-Soul-eBook.html

The Next Thing on My List by Jill Smolinski

Event:Kitap Klubu Mart Ayi Toplantisi
Location:Alkim'in Evi
When:Thu, 03/12/09, 7:30PM

The Next Thing on My List by Jill Smolinski

The new novel from Jill Smolinski ("Flip-Flopped") takes a trendy concept and spins it into a charming tale, albeit with a few holes. She creates yet another cookie-cutter chick-lit world, where the heroine, June, is a little witty and a little self-conscious and works at a job in which she is underappreciated. Then comes the whirlwind transformation that turns her world upside down and elicits positive change.
After a Weight Watchers meeting, June is in a car accident. Her passenger, a 24-year-old woman, dies. After soul-searching and a push from outside forces, June decides to finish the dead girl's list of "20 Things to Do by My 25th Birthday."
From "eat ice cream in public" to "change a life," the items begin to make June into a better person. She sees the world around her differently and opens herself to new possibilities. The story is complicated by June's attraction to the dead girl's brother, a traffic reporter who can help her career, one in which women climb the corporate ladder if they look good in a tight skirt.
June's lack of self-esteem muddles the plot as everyone around her has to build her up to see what they see: an attractive and able career woman who can stand on her own feet. Also troubling is June's lack of emotion; Smolinski would have made the novel more interesting if she included the emotional turmoil of a woman trying to make amends after a fatal accident.
This is summer reading candy. The pages seem to turn themselves, but the story never quite reaches the emotional or adventurous pinnacle it strives to attain.

http://www.tbo.com/entertainment/books/MGBN8ZHR42F.html

Hot, Flat, and Crowded: Why We Need a Green Revolution

Event:Kitap Klubu Ocak Ayi Toplantisi
Location:Sibel Babacan
When:Wed, 02/4/09, 7:30PM

Hot, Flat, and Crowded: Why We Need a Green Revolution

Thomas L. Friedman's no. 1 bestseller The World Is Flat has helped millions of readers to see globalization in a new way. Now Friedman brings a fresh outlook to the crises of destabilizing climate change and rising competition for energy—both of which could poison our world if we do not act quickly and collectively. His argument speaks to all of us who are concerned about the state of America in the global future.
Friedman proposes that an ambitious national strategy—which he calls "Geo-Greenism"—is not only what we need to save the planet from overheating; it is what we need to make America healthier, richer, more innovative, more productive, and more secure.
As in The World Is Flat, he explains a new era—the Energy-Climate era—through an illuminating account of recent events. He shows how 9/11, Hurricane Katrina, and the flattening of the world by the Internet (which brought 3 billion new consumers onto the world stage) have combined to bring climate and energy issues to Main Street. But they have not gone very far down Main Street; the much-touted "green revolution" has hardly begun. With all that in mind, Friedman sets out the clean-technology breakthroughs we, and the world, will need; he shows that the ET (Energy Technology) revolution will be both transformative and disruptive; and he explains why America must lead this revolution—with the first Green President and a Green New Deal, spurred by the Greenest Generation.
Hot, Flat, and Crowded is classic Thomas L. Friedman—fearless, incisive, forward-looking, and rich in surprising common sense about the world we live in today.
http://www.thomaslfriedman.com/bookshelf/hot-flat-and-crowded

Three Cups of Tea by Greg Mortenson and David Oliver

Event:Kitap Klubu Aralik Ayi Toplantisi
Location:Barnes and Noble
98 Middlesex Parkway, Burlington, MA
When:Wed, 12/17/08, 7:30PM

Three Cups of Tea by Greg Mortenson and David Oliver

Three Cups of Tea by Greg Mortenson and David Oliver Relin is the true story of Mortenson's work building schools in remote villages in Pakistan. Mortenson moves from a lost climber who promises a school to one small village to a major player in promoting peace through education in Pakistan and Afghanistan. His story is too crazy to be made up. Three Cups of Tea is good reading for anyone who wants to understand more about Central Asia and be inspired by what one humble person can do.
http://bestsellers.about.com/od/memoirs/gr/three_cups_tea.htm

Eat, Pray, Love Yazar by Elizabeth Gilbert

Event:Kitap Klubu Ekim Ayi Toplantisi
Location: Barnes and Noble
98 Middlesex Parkway, Burlington, MA
When:Tue, 10/28/08, 7:30PM

Eat, Pray, Love Yazar by Elizabeth Gilbert

Review by JENNIFER EGAN
Published: February 26, 2006
Early on in "Eat, Pray, Love," her travelogue of spiritual seeking, the novelist and journalist Elizabeth Gilbert gives a characteristically frank rundown of her traveling skills: tall and blond, she doesn't blend well physically in most places; she's lazy about research and prone to digestive woes. "But my one mighty travel talent is that I can make friends with anybody," she writes. "I can make friends with the dead. . . . If there isn't anyone else around to talk to, I could probably make friends with a four-foot-tall pile of Sheetrock." This is easy to believe. If a more likable writer than Gilbert is currently in print, I haven't found him or her. And I don't mean this as consolation prize, along the lines of: but she's really, really nice. I mean that Gilbert's prose is fueled by a mix of intelligence, wit and colloquial exuberance that is close to irresistible, and makes the reader only too glad to join the posse of friends and devotees who have the pleasure of listening in. Her previous work of nonfiction, "The Last American Man" (she's also the author of a fine story collection and a novel), was a portrait of a modern-day wilderness expert that became an evocative meditation on the American frontier, and was a finalist for the National Book Award in 2002.
Here, Gilbert's subject is herself. Reeling from a contentious divorce, a volatile rebound romance and a bout of depression, she decided at 34 to spend a year traveling in Italy, India and Indonesia. "I wanted to explore one aspect of myself set against the backdrop of each country, in a place that has traditionally done that one thing very well," she writes. "I wanted to explore the art of pleasure in Italy, the art of devotion in India and, in Indonesia, the art of balancing the two." Her trip was financed by an advance on the book she already planned to write, and "Eat, Pray, Love" is the mixed result.

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/02/26/books/review/26egan.html

The Bastard of Istanbul by Elif Shafak

Event:Kitap Klubu Eylul Ayi Toplantisi
Location:Barnes and Noble 98 Middlesex Parkway, Burlington, MA
When: Tue, 09/23/08, 7:30PM

The Bastard of Istanbul by Elif Shafak

The human memory can either be a blessing or a curse; a blessing because it allows you to hold onto moments in time that you cherish and a curse because it won't let you forget things you'd rather not remember. No matter how hard you try, once something has been observed and recorded by your brain it's stored there permanently unless you have that piece of your brain killed - and even that isn't foolproof because nobody's quite sure which parts of the brain do what. Memories thought isolated to one part of the mind can migrate of their own volition and show up again somewhere else completely unexpected and unwanted.
History is a recording of past events that sometimes has nothing to do with what actually happened, but unlike memories, history has a way of surviving unchallenged. Somehow because it is written down, or recorded officially, it is considered much more accurate than anything the human brain is capable of remembering. The fact that histories are sometimes written by people with vested interests in how they read and years after the events recounted took place doesn't seem to change anyone's opinion of their veracity. Only in the face of irrefutable evidence can history be re-written, and even then there will always be resistance.
All of us have a history; we were all born, we all were children, adolescents (a time a lot of would choose to forget if we could, I'm sure), young adults, and so on down the line until we die. As we age we formulate our own histories based on the memories we have of the days we've lived. Yet like any history there are points in time that are beyond the reach of our own memories, and we have to rely on what other people claim has happened.

http://blogcritics.org/books/article/book-review-the-bastard-of-istanbul/

Friday, May 23, 2008

Life's a Beach by Claire Cook

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma tarihi ve saati: Tuesday, June 17, 7:30PM

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma yeri: Sehnaz'in evi -Acton

Tartisilacak Kitap: Life's a Beach by Claire Cook

Synopses & Reviews
Publisher Comments:
By the bestselling author of Must Love Dogs, the story of two grown-up sisters who fight like cats andd dogs ��” but call each other at least twice a day.
When Must Love Dogs was published, the Chicago Tribune called it "pitch-perfect" and the Washington Post declared, "Readers will hope that Claire Cook will be telling breezy summer stories from the South Shore of Massachusetts for seasons to come." Luckily for her legions of fans, Cook returns with another sparkling romantic comedy that's reminiscent of Must Love Dogs in all the right ways, but very much its own animal — about a relationship-challenged single woman, her quirky-to-put-it-mildly extended family, and the summer the shark movie came to town.
Life's a bit of a beach these days for Ginger Walsh, who's single at forty-one and living back home in the family FROG (Finished Room Over Garage). She's hoping for a more fulfilling life as a sea glass artist, but instead is babysitting her sister's kids and sharing overnights with Noah, her sexy artist boyfriend with commitment issues and a dog Ginger's cat isn't too crazy about. Geri, her BlackBerry-obsessed sister, is also nearly over the deep end about her pending fiftieth birthday (and might just drag Ginger with her). Toss in a dumpster-picking father, a Kama Sutra T-shirt-wearing mother, a movie crew come to town with a very cute gaffer, an on-again-off-again glassblower boyfriend, plus a couple of Red Hat realtors, and hilarity ensues. The perfect summer read, Life's a Beach is a warm, witty, and wise look at what it takes to move forward at any stage in life.
Review:
"Must Love Dogs author Cook returns with Ginger Walsh, 41, who has ditched her job in sales and moved above her parent's garage with a cat she calls Boyfriend — despite (or because of) her casual relationship with alluring glassblower Noah. As big sister Geri gets anxious about her impending 50th, their parents decide to sell the house, and Geri's second-grader Riley lands a small role in a horror movie being filmed in their quaint New England town. Ginger babysits Riley on the set and meets a gaffer who may be charming enough to make her forget all about Noah. Cook's wit and unflagging heart save this moderately paced beach read from its anticlimactic ending. (June)" Publishers Weekly (Copyright Reed Business Information, Inc.)
Review:
"'Must Love Dogs author Cook returns with Ginger Walsh, 41, who has ditched her job in sales and moved above her parent's garage with a cat she calls Boyfriend — despite (or because of) her casual relationship with alluring glassblower Noah. As big sister Geri gets anxious about her impending 50th, their parents decide to sell the house, and Geri's second-grader Riley lands a small role in a horror movie being filmed in their quaint New England town. Ginger babysits Riley on the set and meets a gaffer who may be charming enough to make her forget all about Noah. Cook's wit and unflagging heart save this moderately paced beach read from its anticlimactic ending. (June)' Publishers Weekly (Copyright Reed Business Information, Inc.)" Publishers Weekly (Copyright Reed Business Information, Inc.)
Review:
"Cook...ably catalogues the issues facing 40-something women, but the generic settings and tepid romances prevent this book from taking off." Kirkus Reviews
Review:
"In this lighthearted, breezy read, Cook...displays a wry sense of humor and knows how to write realistic characters." Library Journal
Review:
"[F]illed with hilarity, sister love and sister hate, juicy arguments and hard-won reconciliations, but most of all, heart." Adriana Trigiani, author of Return to Big Stone Gap
Synopsis:
From the bestselling author of "Must Love Dogs" comes the story of two grown-up sisters who fight like cats and dogs--but call each other at least twice a day.
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About the Author
Claire Cook is the author of Must Love Dogs, Multiple Choice, and Ready to Fall. She lives in Scituate, Massachusetts, with her husband, where they are occasionally visited by their borderline adult children and their laundry.(http://www.powells.com/biblio/1-9781401303242-2)

The Accidental Tourist by Anne Tyler

The Accidental Tourist by Anne Tyler

ABOUT THE BOOK
Macon Leary hates travelling and writes guide books for these businessmen who feel the same. The ‘Accidental Tourist’ series tells them how to travel in such a way that they will feel that they have never left home. Macon however, finds himself unable to provide a guidebook for his soul – he fails to save his marriage and cannot come to terms with the random, senseless death of his son. His answer is to retreat into a downward spiral of complex rituals and habits that threaten to take over his life. Two random incidents that leave Macon with a broken leg and a need to get his dog trained become a potential turning point in his life, but the question is whether Macon’s retreat into the comfortable and habit and conformity has gone to far to allow him to grab the moment and take his life down another unknown route.
‘My favourite writer, and the best line-and-length novelist in the world, is Anne Tyler, the Americna author of The Accidental Tourist and Saint Maybe… Brilliant, funny, sad and senstive’ Nick Hornby, Author of High Fidelity and How To Be Good
‘Anne Tyler gets better with every book, and this one is a triumph – funny, profound, sad and ultimately reassuring.’ Sunday Telegraph
‘Now poignant, now funny… Anne Tyler is brilliant’ New York Times Book Review
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Anne Tyler was born in Minneapolis, Minnesota, but grew up in North Carolina, as the daughter of an industrial chemist and a social worker. The family lived among various Quaker communities in the rural south before settling in Raleigh, North Carolina. These years formed background for her Southern literary flavour, which is seen in the settings of her fiction.
At the age of 19 Tyler graduated from Duke University, North Carolina, where she twice won the Anne Flexner Award for creative writing She did post-graduate work in Russian studies at Columbia University before settling in Baltimore, where she has lived for much of her adult life, If Morning Ever Comes in 1964 and became a full-time writer in 1967. She is the author of 14 novels of which The Accidental Tourist won a National Book Critics Circle Award in 1986 and was made into a film starring William Hurt and Kathleen Turner in 1988, and Breathing Lessons was awarded the Pulitzer Prize in 1989. The Amateur Marriage was published in 2004.
Anne Tyler was nominated by Roddy Doyle and Nick Hornby in The Sunday Times survey in 1994 as ‘the greatest living novelists writing in English.
AUTHOR INTERVIEW
www.realsimple.com
When your children were young, did you ever worry that being a mother and a writer were mutually exclusive?
I learned early that I cared much, much more about my family than my writing. If a novel wasn't going well, I could still enjoy my children, but if one of my children was sick, I couldn't even remember what the novel was about. In that way, I've been lucky. I didn't have to deal with any serious inner conflicts.
What kind of writing schedule, if any, do you follow?
I try to write every weekday, starting fairly early in the morning and stopping in the afternoon, because my mind always seems to "click off" later in the day. I believe in the importance of routine - going into the same room every morning, sitting in the same place on the couch, hearing the same birds in the tree outside my window.
Do you keep any kind of journal when writing a novel?
No, no journal. It seems to me that writing about writing would weaken any impetus to undertake the writing itself. I do have a cardboard box filled with three-by-five index cards on which I've very briefly - telegraphically - jotted down random daydreams, or phrases that intrigue me, or thoughts about "what if." What if such-and-such a type of character had to deal with such-and-such a situation? That sort of thing.
I write with a Parker 75 fountain pen, a No. 62 nib (I live in fear they'll be discontinued), and black ink on unlined paper. I rewrite, rewrite, rewrite, and then put what I've written into a computer. But I rewrite it all over again in longhand at the end because the slow pace of longhand and the silence (no clicking of keys) make it easier for me to catch false notes.
How does Baltimore nourish you as a writer?
Baltimore is so much its very own self, with its own language and style and way of looking at things, that a novel set there just seems automatically to develop extra layers. It's a wonderful gift for a writer. I can't imagine living anywhere else.
Which of your novels was the most difficult to write? Which experience was the most pleasurable? Is there an early work you still feel especially proud of?
I always think the most recent book was the most difficult. Certainly the most pleasurable was Searching for Caleb. Writing that was like attending a long party. And the book I'm proudest of is Dinner at the Homesick Restaurant, because it's the one that most closely resembles my original vision of it.
What happens after you finish a novel? Is it difficult to let go of certain stories or characters?
After I send a manuscript off to my agent, I always picture my central characters riding the train alone to New York City, looking hopeful and a little scared, and I feel very protective of them. If my agent calls later to say he likes the book, I think, Well, bless their hearts, they made it after all! And then I more or less forget them (more information http://www.randomhouse.co.uk/offthepage/guide.htm?command=Search&db=/catalog/main.txt&eqisbndata=0099480018)

Mutluluk-Bliss by Zulfu Livaneli

Mutluluk-Bliss by Zulfu Livaneli

Synopses & Reviews
Publisher Comments:
Meryem, a fifteen-year-old girl, lives in a rural village on the shores of Lake Van in Eastern Turkey. Her simple life changes dramatically after her uncle, a sheikh in a dervish order, rapes her. She is considered an outcast for shaming her family. When she is locked in a shed and left alone for days, she comes to the painful realization that her family expects her to hang herself with a length of rope left on the dirt floor. But she is defiant.
As tradition still has it, a judgment must be made in the name of honor. She is told she is to be taken to Istanbul, a shining city she envisions being just over the nearest mountain. Many girls from her village have "gone to Istanbul," and she assumes it must be a wonderful place since not one has returned. In fact, those girls have been the victims of "honor-killings."
Cemal, Meryem's cousin, a commando in the army, has been fighting in the mountains against the rebels. On his return home, he is welcomed as a hero though he has been severely traumatized by his war experiences. His father, who had violated Meryem, charges Cemal with the task of executing his cousin's punishment. As he and Mereym begin their journey, they proceed through the marketplace where the townspeople have gathered, some weeping and others mocking her.
In Istanbul, a Harvard-educated professor named Irfan lives an elite existence. He has published many books, hosts a radio show, and seems to enjoy success and jet-set freedom. He revolts against the routine of his soulless life, deciding to leave his wealthy wife and Istanbul. He charters a boat to sail the Aegean. By coincidence, his path crosses with that of Meryem and Cemal. They embark on a journey togetherthat fills their hearts with hope and sets them free.
Already an international bestseller, this lyrical and moving tale juxtaposes the traditional and modern and draws attention to human rights violations against women in the Middle East.
Review:
"The paths of three characters converge to illustrate, perhaps too patly, the conflicts of contemporary Turkey. Raped by her uncle, the sheikh, 15-year-old villager Meryem has shamed her family. To save the family name, Cemal, the sheikh's son, a soldier home from his tour fighting Kurds in the Gabar Mountains, is ordered by his father to take Meryem to Istanbul and to murder her. When Cemal and Meryem reach Istanbul, they are shocked by the cosmopolitan city, full of women wearing low-cut blouses and children who disobey their parents. Cemal falters at the moment of decision and, instead of murdering Meryem, travels with her to the seaside, where they encounter Irfan, a successful Istanbul professor who, plagued by insomnia and anxiety, has fled his cushy life to set sail in the Aegean Sea. Irfan offers them jobs on his boat and forges a tenuous mentorship with Meryem, but Cemal, whose psychological torment is richly captured early in the book, is soon reduced to a glowering presence. Livaneli, a former exile who was elected to Turkey's Parliament in 2002, takes great pains to reveal his country's complex culture, but the result often reads like a cautionary fable. Readers should prepare themselves for heavy-handed allegory." Publishers Weekly (Copyright Reed Business Information, Inc.)
Review:
"A writer, composer, and elected member of the Turkish parliament, Livaneli offers readers a fascinating look at the diversity of Turkey today in his American debut." Library Journal
Review:
"Eye-opening and deeply moving — essential for anyone looking for decency in the world today." Kirkus Reviews
Review:
"[T]his novel by an eminent Turkish writer and member of Parliament tells a gripping contemporary story that gets behind stereotypes of exotic Islam to reveal the diversity in individual people and the secrets and lies, cruelty and love, in family, friendship, and public life." Booklist
Review:
"Livaneli is an essential force in Turkey's musical, cultural and political scene." Orhan Pamuk, author of the national bestseller, Snow
Synopsis:
Already an international bestseller, this lyrical story ripped from the headlines embodies the sweep and contradictions of modern Turkey and shows that lovely things can happen in the space between wounded people.
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About the Author
O.Z. Livaneli is one of Turkey's most prominent and popular authors as well as an accomplished musician and composer, whose works have been recorded by the London Symphony Orchestra. He was held under military detention during the coup of March 12, 1971 and lived in exile for eight years. He studied music in Stockholm, then lived in Paris and Athens, returning to Turkey in 1984. He was one of the founders of the Turkish-Kurdish Peace Movement and the initiator of the Campaign Against Violence in Turkey, and he has made significant contributions to the Greek-Turkish Frienship Committee. He was elected a Member of Parliament in 2002.
(http://www.powells.com/biblio/97803123605350

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma tarihi ve saati: Wednesday, March 5, 7:30PM

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma yeri: Barnes and Noble - Burlington

Tartisilacak Kitap:The Painted Veil by W. Somerset Maugham

Written by Katie McNeillPublished January 10, 2007
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“… the painted veil which those who live call Life.”

I saw a preview last week for Edward Norton's new movie, The Painted Veil. The movie looks fantastic, a sweeping romantic period piece. a type that I just love. Then the next day at a favorite bookstore sitting there on the table in front of me was a copy of The Painted Veil by W. Somerset Maugham, first published in 1925.

Maugham (1874-1965) was an English playwright, novelist and short story writer who traveled the globe using the exotic locals as backdrops to his work. This was the 2004 reprint, the cover a beautiful painting of a woman holding a bird cage casually in one hand. There is something so captivating about her face, especially the look in her eyes. So I bought the book.

The Painted Veil is not only a story of Kitty and her ill-fated marriage to bacteriologist Walter Fane, but of her own personal growth as a human being. Kitty was raised by her mother to do one thing in life, marry young and well. When her younger sister announces her own engagement Kitty, who has already passed up several offers of marriage, accepts Walter Fane’s proposal for her own very selfish reasons.

Right from the start you know that Kitty does not love Walter, barely even likes him, and views him as a way of escape from the thought of being an old maid, as well as her mother's bitterness. Kitty is selfish and often unkind to the man so madly in love with her. She pities Walter and often despises him because of his love for her.

But still Kitty moves from England to the British colony of Hong Kong, where she soaks up the attention that is given to a new bride. But when the shine starts to wear off and Kitty discovers that being the wife of a bacteriologist isn’t as glamorous as she had hoped she finds other things to occupy her time.

When Walter learns of Kitty’s adulterous affair with Charles Townsend, an official in the Hong Kong colony, he gives her two choices. Kitty can go to Charlie and ask him to divorce his wife to marry her or she can go with Walter into the middle of a cholera epidemic.

In the middle of this epidemic, Kitty finally starts to realize what a good man Walter is. She still does not love him but can see for the perhaps the first time how lucky she is to have someone like him. Kitty begins to view her self differently as well. But Walter, once so madly in love, can not forgive Kitty her sin.

With beautiful China as a backdrop to this story of growth, The Painted Veil is a classic. It is beautifully written, the writing compact but amazingly detailed. Kitty is finely drawn and fully realized, Walter much more distant but still captivating.

The ending, while being satisfying, is the not ending that I hoped for. Desperately I wanted Kitty to find something in Walter to love; I wanted to see their relationship healed. But in the end it is her relationship with her father that is mended and the narrowness of her soul expanded.

http://blogcritics.org/archives/2007/01/10/203021.php

Self-Made Man: One Woman's Journey into Manhood and Back Again: My Year Disguised as a Man)

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma tarihi ve saati: Fri, 01/18/08, 7:00PM

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma yeri: Barnes and Noble - Burlington

Tartisilacak Kitap: Self-Made Man: One Woman's Journey into Manhood and Back Again: My Year Disguised as a Man (Yazar: Norah Vincent)

Review by DAVID KAMP
Published: January 22, 2006
Don't judge this book by its cover. It features two photographs of the author, Norah Vincent. In the first, she's a brassy, attractive woman with short, upswept hair and a confident smirk on her face. In the second, she's done up in man drag, with poindexter eyeglasses, a day's worth of stubble and a necktie. There's your premise in a nutshell: assertive, opinionated Vincent, best known as a contrarian columnist for The Los Angeles Times, goes undercover as a man to learn how the fellas think and act when them pesky broads ain't around. Flip the book open, and the first thing you come to is its dedication: "To my beloved wife, Lisa McNulty, who saves my life on a daily basis." Yes, ladies and gents, the author is a self-proclaimed "dyke."

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http://www.nytimes.com/2006/01/22/books/review/22kamp.html

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

THE FAITH CLUB:A Muslim, A Christian, A Jew-- Three Women Search for Understanding

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma tarihi ve saati: November 29, 2007
Kitap Kulubunun bulusma yeri: Barnes and Noble - Burlington
Tartisilacak Kitap: The faith club : a Muslim, a Christian, a Jew : three women search for understanding / by Ranya Idliby, Suzanne Oliver, Priscilla Warner.

THE FAITH CLUB was started when Ranya Idliby, an American Muslim of Palestinian descent, recruited Suzanne Oliver, a Christian, and Priscilla Warner, a Jew, to write a children's book about their three religions. As the women's meetings began, it became clear that they had their own adult struggles with faith and religion, and they needed a safe haven where they could air their concerns, admit their ignorance, and explore their own faiths. Ranya, Suzanne, and Priscilla began to meet regularly to discuss their religious backgrounds and beliefs and to ask each other tough questions. As the three women met and talked, there were no awkward silences -- no stretches of time with nothing for them to say to each other. Honesty was the first rule of THE FAITH CLUB, and with that tenet as a foundation, no topic was off limits. With courage, pain, and sometimes tears, Ranya, Suzanne, and Priscilla found themselves completely transformed by their experience inside the safe cocoon of THE FAITH CLUB, and they realized that they had learned things so powerful they wanted to share them with the rest of the world. This is their story.
http://www.faithfulreader.com/guides/074329047X-guide.asp

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Balzac and the Little Chinese Seamstress by Dai Sijie

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma tarihi ve saati: October 29, 2007
Kitap Kulubunun bulusma yeri: Barnes and Noble - Burlington
Tartisilacak Kitap: Balzac and the Little Chinese Seamstress by Dai Sijie


In 1971, as Mao's Cultural Revolution swept over China, shutting down universities and banishing "reactionary intellectuals" to the countryside, two teenage boys are sent to live on the remote and unforgiving mountain known as Phoenix in the Sky. Even though the knowledge the narrator and his best friend Luo had acquired in middle school was "precisely nil," they are nevertheless considered dangerous intellectuals and forced to spend their days carrying buckets of excrement up and down the mountain to fertilize the fields. But when they bargain their way into obtaining a forbidden Balzac novel from their friend Four Eyes, a new and dizzyingly vast world opens up to them. Through Balzac, the narrator discovers "awakening desire, passion, impulsive action, love, all the subjects that had, until then, been hidden" [p. 57]. And when Luo falls in love with the beautiful Little Seamstress, life and literature come together in a passionate romance. Luo and the narrator plot to steal Four Eyes' suitcase full of books both for their own pleasure and to transform the seamstress from a simple peasant into a sophisticated woman. Their success in doing so, and the unexpected consequences that follow, drive the novel to its stunning, heart-wrenching conclusion.Part historical novel, part fable, part love story, Balzac and the Little Chinese Seamstress is a moving testament to the transformative power of literature. (http://www.readinggroupguides.com/guides3/balzac_and_the_seamstress1.asp)

Friday, September 07, 2007

The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma tarihi ve saati: September 2007
Kitap Kulubunun bulusma yeri: Barnes and Noble Burlington
Tartisilacak Kitap: The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell

This celebrated New York Times bestseller -- is a book that is changing the way Americans think about selling products and disseminating ideas.

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Title: The Tipping PointAuthor: Malcolm GladwellPublisher: Back BayCopyright: 2002ISBN: 0316346624Pages: 301Price: $15.00Rating: 60%
Malcolm Gladwell, a staff writer for the New Yorker, has a way with words. He also has a way with ideas, and in this book posits an interesting concept: that major changes occur when things reach a "tipping point" (or "the moment of critical mass, the threshold, the boiling point"). This idea is similar to that of the "paradigm shift", which is generally applied to science and our understanding of the world, but Gladwell attempts to show how it affects more mundane things: the sale of Hush Puppies shoes, epidemics, or the fall of crime in New York.
The first example in the book - that of how Hush Puppies went from being a moribund brand, sold only to the un-hip, to a hugely successful national brand, thanks to a handful of downtown New York trendsetters - is a prime example of how such shifts can occur. A group of "opinion makers" started wearing these shoes; others saw them and copied the style, with people even driving to out-of-the-way places to buy up stocks of Hush Puppies. Then a few fashion designers used them on the walkway, and visibility reached the "tipping point". The brand then experienced a renewal that, to this day, astounds even those in the company, who had been ready to throw in the towel.
But Gladwell then strays from this concept, talking about Paul Revere's famous ride to warn patriots that "the British are coming". Gladwell says that this event "is perhaps the most famous historical example of a word-of-mouth epidemic." But this doesn't fit in his other descriptions of "tipping points". After all, Revere's ride was a single incident - albeit an important one - but not one where anything "tipped". He alerted lots of people, in part because he knew them and was known, but there was no accumulation effect that caused this "ride" to have its famous results.
Gladwell should also talk about what I'll call the "dipping point", that point in a book when the reader starts paying less attention because of information overload. For me, this started on page 112, when Gladwell had already spent far too many pages trying to convince me that "stickiness" was a key factor in the success of Sesame Street and Blue's Clues. Stickiness seems to be that indescribable, yet analyzable, factor that keeps you attention "stuck" on something. In this case, it is what keeps pre-schoolers glued to the TV screen. But this seems to have little to do with any "tipping point"; sure, it may attract and hold people, and contribute to the popularity of these shows, but I dipped as Gladwell stretched this example out over too many pages.
The problem is that when Gladwell talks about people, he is sticky; when he talks about technology and processes, he dips. Chapter 2, The Law of the Few, talks about "connectors, mavens and salesmen", or three types of people who help spread ideas. Gladwell is in awe of all these people, and his prose is energetic. Yet when he describes the focus groups of pre-schoolers watching Sesame Street, it just gets turgid.
Gladwell approaches the dramatic fall in crime in New York as a "tipping point", but tries to discount every meta-change that helped drop the crime rate: increased police presence, tougher sentencing, and, above all, a vibrant economy that lowered unemployment drastically among the underclass, those who commit crimes. He prefers to believe in some mystical force that "tipped" everyone from being mean to being nice. He claims that the first element that caused the tip was a crackdown on graffiti on subway cars: graffiti was cleaned off subway cars, showing the taggers that they would no longer be tolerated. Then it was a crackdown on fare-beating; stopping people from cheating obviously gave them new moral values. He loses me when, talking about the 1984 incident when Bernard Goetz shot four youths who were harassing him on a subway train, he claims this: "...the showdown on the subway between Bernie Goetz and those four youths had very little to do, in the end, with the tangled psychological pathology of Goetz, and very little as well to do with the background and poverty of the four youths who accosted him, and everything to do with the message sent by the graffiti on the walls and the disorder at the turnstiles." This after describing how Goetz, after a stern upbringing and being mugged and injured, got a gun, with clear plans to become a vigilante. This, after describing how the four youths had all been previously arrested for assault, and how at least two of them were on drugs at the time. But Gladwell finds nothing more than graffiti and turnstile-jumping to be the cause. Balderdash! Goetz was mad as hell, and was not going to take it any more.

Snow Falling on Cedar by David Guterson

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma tarihi ve saati: June 2007
Kitap Kulubunun bulusma yeri: Barnes and Noble Burlington
Tartisilacak Kitap: Snow Falling on Cedar by David Guterson

The Bonesetter's Daughter by Amy Tan

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma tarihi ve saati: May 2007
Kitap Kulubunun bulusma yeri: Barnes and Noble Burlington
The Bonesetter's Daughter by Amy Tan

A Peace to End All Peace by David Fromkin

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma tarihi ve saati: April 2007
Kitap Kulubunun bulusma yeri: Barnes and Noble Burlington
Tartisilacak kitap: A Peace to End All Peace by David Fromkin

Leyla'nin Evi by Zulfu Livaneli

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma tarihi ve saati: January 2007
Kitap Kulubunun bulusma yeri: Barnes and Noble Burlington
Tartisilacak kitap: Leyla'nin Evi by Zulfu Livaneli

Harem by Dora Levy Mossanen

Kitap Kulubunun bulusma tarihi ve saati: March 2007
Kitap Kulubunun bulusma yeri: Barnes and Noble Burlington
Tartisilacak kitap: "Harem" by Dora Levy Mossanen